They aren’t going to see the changes
The changes won’t be good enough for them
And that’s okay
The changes aren’t for them
The changes are for you
I know that makes you frustrated
That’s why you are still unhappy
We do this so often in relationships we are struggling with
We know we have our part to play in the conflict
So we determine to make a change
But, we are making that change with the secret agenda that it will cause the other person to change also or that they will notice the changes you are making and acknowledge them with gratitude
Until you make the changes for your benefit and not someone else’s, you will stay stuck in anger and frustration
When we make changes for us:
we let go of the expectation of the other person and allow them to just be them; annoying habits and all
we don’t need their validation because we are too busy congratulating ourselves on how we handled the situation
Make the changes for you and watch how quickly you feel better
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